Elaine Lancaster on Artopia, Love for the New Times and Too Much Botox

Categories: Culture, LGBT

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Courtesy of Elaine Lancaster
Have you ever seen Karent frown? 
I don't think with all the Botox she can frown. I like Karent. I like every woman on that show. I'm sure they all have redeeming qualities; it's just a lot of them have deep-seated insecurities.

I live my life as openly and honestly as possible. I have nothing to hide. I moved here with an unapologetic attitude. I wasn't going to make excuses for doing drag. If you don't like it, that's fine, but I'm doing drag first and foremost to entertain other people and also myself. I am very amused by myself sometimes. I crack myself up.

But there are a lot of people who look at a character like Elaine and they want to somehow bridle or stifle it or dim its light -- and its not gonna happen. It's a waste of their time. I also come to think of it as a mosquito trying to attack a giraffe. It's not gonna do any damage or harm, it's just an insect.

You're in a unique position when it comes to understanding women. Why do you think women can be so catty?
Women can be very loving and strong-willed, but they also can be deeply insecure. They can also can be women's worst enemies. They see them as competition, like with Adriana and Joanna. For whatever reason Adriana seemed so jealous of Joanna. It became a blonde theme, battle of the blonde. I was like, bleach your hair blonde then, bitch! They're both pretty girls, Joanna just happens to be beautiful and Adriana happens to be an attractive girl.

The thing with me is I'm not a woman, I don't want to be a woman, but I love emulating women. I think women are the stronger sex, but there are a lot of insecurities with women and cattiness and gossip.

When you hear someone speak ill of someone, you have to ask, what is motivating this person to talk ill about this other person? Is it insecurities or just jealousy? What I find a lot of times with these women is that they'll go out of their way to point out a flaw in someone else, but no one's perfect. I have flaws, I make mistakes all the time. I've probably made a couple today. If it's something that is worthy of an apology, I'm not too proud to say I'm sorry. But I do have this belief that I would rather say what's on my mind in that particular moment, and if I go too far, apologize the next day or week -- then not say a word and wake up the next morning and say, "I should have told that bitch off."

What are you up to now/next?
I'm actually working with a production company out of Nashville. I'm also a music writer and I'm doing, believe it or not, a country single.

And we did some preliminary videoing on film as a man. So much on talk shows these days, the host doesn't give the guest an opportunity to finish their thoughts. They cut them off. It's like, honey, why the hell do you have them on the show if you're going to answer the questions? I truly believe there are a lot of people in this world that are a lot more interesting than I am that I want to learn from. I'd love to sit down and have a one on one with some of the brightest lights in the world. But I love Miami, I can't imagine living anywhere else in the world.

Elaine Lancaster is just one of the artists appearing at Artopia this Thursday, February 28, at the Coral Gables Museum. Read more about the event here, and get your tickets at the website. You can follow Elaine on Twitter at @ElaineLancaster.

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Coral Gables Museum

285 Aragon Ave., Coral Gables, FL

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