Magic City Kitty: Does Fantasizing About Girls Make Me a Lesbian?

• damm i don't care who u pretend i am...that just turns me on...look me up!!!!!.954-520-0005

• I cannot believe this is true!

• This brings me to an idea:...

• Great idea, but will this work over the long run?

• yeah im im in the same boat..iv a boyfriend for the last 3 years, and i always fantacize bout women, esp when hes licking me out, like even now my clit is thumping thinking of it..should i act on them aswell or is it just a phase?? i dont look at women in the shops and say i wud love to fuck tem or neting, where i wud wid lads...im so confused...

• It is no problem if you want to be with a woman, but it is not fair to your boyfriend if you picture a girl doing you when he is down there. That shows there are some problems in how he pleases you. Definitely a suggestion is to have a "we need to talk" convo. If you still care about him then see if it would be fun going out to pick up a girl together, but if you want to go it alone then break-up with him and don't waste anymore time.

• Lesbian identities are generally constructed from three components. Ideation, which is your fantasy life. Behavior, which you have not described actually engaging in same-sex sexual behavior. Lastly, Self-identification, which you openly identify as lesbian. That makes you about 66% actualized as a fully formed lesbian. Tell your "boyfriend" about it. He may be cool, you might like keeping him in the mix and bringing in other girls. In that case you qualify as bisexual. If he's not cool, you're going to have to end it if you want to pursue meaningful sexual relationships with other women.

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